La Historia
Musical:
Some of you I know,
some of you I am meeting for the first time.
So you really want to know?
I was young and naive. Weren't we all? When I was a 15, I
used to sing Aerosmith songs to my self on the way to class. A friend
of mine Bridget Demars and Billy Konstane told me you should try out for our
school musical. And thats how I got involved in music. I was in
all the plays and musicals and joined the choir later. I was also in
the school band because my mother made me do it. Although it was a
good thing cause I meet some good friends and people who influenced me.
I started playing guitar when I was 16, I guess to release all that teenage
anger. Don't get my wrong the songs aren't angry. It was my way
of coping. Some of the guys from my high school used to play guitar in
the halls after class and I enjoyed playing with a friend named Ben Williams
who was very talented. One day I came across a guy a year younger than
me who was playing guitar and I (like an idiot) said, "hey you play guitar?"
he was like, "Uh, yeah" and I said, "I'm trying to start a rock band you
want to play" he said "Ok" and that's how I met Nick Venturella.
We became friends and soon formed a band called Din Addiction with
Nick Vonder Ehe on bass and Robbie DeAngeles on drums and later Nicks older
brother Tim as our drummer. In the beginning we were pretty bad but we
got better. I found Nick was much better at me on guitar and he was
out lead. I played rhythm and sang. Nick and I wrote the songs.
We played for the school talent shows and a few battle of the bands.
We won the county fair battle of the bands, that may have to do with the
fact that after we went a huge storm hit and they cancelled the rest.
It was so cool being on stage and watching the black thick clouds roll in
and see the lighting coming! Winning was just icing on the cake and a
nice boast to our egos.
Din Addiction broke up, partly because we were going to college and partly
because nick's older brother Tim had other things going on in his life like
a job and all the other adult things to do that we didn't much understand at
the time. Nick and I decided to play out as an acoustic duo act called
Gemini's Rival I liked that name. I thought it was fitting
since people mistook us for brothers and we were as close as brothers and we
both wanted to be stars! We played out many places and had lots of
good times all through college. We played at coffee shops and schools
and stores, like Sprizzo's in Waukesha, Star Bucks, Gino's Deli, Edgewood
College, St. Olaf college, a coffee place in Winona just to name a few.
Playing out in Wisconsin is kind of a hard gig. There not that many
venues and most of the crowds want to hear cover tunes. I can't stand
playing covers, to me it was like whoring my self out. I wanted
people to either like the songs I made or not simple as that. As a
result I didn't learn how to play many covers so to this day if you ask me
to play some Skynard I don't know it! There were a few we played for
our own enjoyment and we changed them up a little. Love is what I got-
Sublime (an awsome band, rest in peace Brad Lee!), Knocking on Heavens door-
GNR style, (Axl kicks ass), Leaving On a Jet Plane- our verson, and Angel by
Aerosmith (my tribute to the band that inspired me and helped me make it out
of adolescence). Nick and I recorded two cd's as Gemini's Rival:
Touring the Coffee Circuit and You Don't have to Be a Rock Star to
Party Like One, yeah its a long title.
We wrote a lot of songs and had a very good chemistry writing and good stage
presence. We looked for other ways to express our music and my senior
year in college we wrote a musical called "Lost In Madison", we produced it,
I directed and was the lead in it at St. Olaf college. Man that was
tough! I had been in many musicals but that was a lot of hats to wear
at once and I'm not a good multi tasker. Still it was a great feeling
of accomplishment and we enjoyed it. Nick and I were serious about
only one thing, music, the rest of the time we big goofs. If you knew
us you would understand. He had a very care free attitude and was
probably the funniest guy you'd ever met. He was not afraid to be
himself no matter what that was. It's a rare quality that I admired a
lot and learned from him. After college we grew apart and stopped
playing music together. Nick wanted to do his own musical act and we
had a falling out and didn't talk to each other much after that. Years
later he called on Christmas and we buried the hatchet. He is the one
who did the layout for my demo cd.
After looking around I found some guys and started a new band in Waukesha
called Grind 59 with Craig Friemoth (an amazing guitarist) on lead,
Bob Cobb (a crazy, funny guy) on bass and Dan Hollman (a great guy I admire
and respect) as the drummer. They were all older than me Craig and
Bobb were married and Dan was divorced. All of us were working day
jobs and I don't know about them but I lived for that band. It made my
life tolerable. We were together for a year or so and recorded 5 of
the songs on the Demo. Those songs I wrote but they had other songs
they wrote. We had a lot of fun and our sound was tight but Dan the
drummer got promoted at his job and had to travel a lot. With out him
there was no band he was really the glue that held us together. After
that I moved to New York were I am doing my thing now.
Music and performing is what has always made me happiest. I figure
when you are dead and gone only a few people will remember you but the
things you do can live on. I don't care for being famous but if people
pop in my cd from time to time and enjoy it then I'm happy.